Ever break off a relationship with someone who has been driving you insane for months, initially feel liberated when you finally do break up, but then after about a week, when the feelings sink in, you realize that you are completely in love with that person and you should have never broken things up?

By Oom Papa! on Sunday, November 4, 2001 - 09:25 pm:

Well no, I havent, but I feel for you all the same. Is it the insanity which you miss? Sanity can become a little dull if you've become accustomed to a more surreal existence, I'm sure.

By Papa Oom! on Sunday, November 4, 2001 - 11:05 pm:

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By Sookie on Monday, November 5, 2001 - 03:39 am:

Chances are you weren't in love with them. Chances are you just got comfortable. I went through that too just recently. If you still miss them in a month, then act on it.

By Shifty on Tuesday, November 6, 2001 - 01:56 pm:

I agree with Sookie although how can I tell? Thing is you never realise how much you miss something until it's gone. How I wish these days I Hadn't chopped off me knob as a token of love 3 years ago when I first saw Skrooie

By Cam on Tuesday, November 6, 2001 - 07:04 pm:

Really? haha

By N J McLean (Skrooie) on Wednesday, November 7, 2001 - 01:55 am:

How I wish you hadn't actually *mailed* it to me.

And people worry about Anthrax ?!?

By Carly on Monday, December 10, 2001 - 01:07 pm:

Dear sad and confused... the thing is, no matter what relationship comes to an end and no matter how it comes to an end, you're always gonna miss some part of it. My theory is that it's not always because you love them. It's because the human brain is a great one for becoming nostalgic and remembering only the good times and conveniently forgetting that the bad mostly outweighed the good. So you mope around, missing them and, if you're anything like me, make the mistake of making up with that person when they offer you the peace pipe, even tho you know in your heat they're just gonna end up jerking you around again. My advice is to get over it and move on, although I appreciate that it's far easier a thing to say than to do.

By Riding the Storm on Thursday, December 13, 2001 - 01:33 pm:

There comes a time in every person's life where they are faced with a tough decision, Sad and Confused. Now, if this person you broke up with was driving you absolutely up the bleeding wall, then perhaps you have made the right decision. We all need to make mistakes, of any kind you know? Good, bad or indifferent. It takes a brave person to make the decision to take that giant leap forward onto a new road. Sure, you'll feel a leetle empty and in the dark at first, but remember, things can only get better now that you have taken that step.

"Show me a man who dares not confront the shadows that lie before and behind and all around him, and you show me a coward. Show me a man who has made his peace with his demons, who knows the way to happiness, and you show me a hero." -RTS

Live life, and love living it. Take whatever chances you may and never look back, dwelling on the past only pulls us behind. Dare to run wild in the elements and dare to ride the storm.